Comments for The Healing Project http://healingprojectsite.com The journey to heal myself and my life... Mon, 06 Feb 2012 19:27:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Serenity, Courage, Wisdom… by debbier http://healingprojectsite.com/2010/08/serenity-prayer/#comment-2190 debbier Mon, 06 Feb 2012 19:27:45 +0000 http://healingproject.wordpress.com/?p=507#comment-2190 Lorena, Thank you so much for your comment! I am so glad that my post and my perspective was helpful to you. It is very difficult to let go and accept that we cannot change other people, especially when a loved one is engaging in highly self-destructive behavior. I still struggle with wanting to "save" the person I wrote about, but then I remind myself to let go and let God. We can only control ourselves and our own feelings. It can be difficult to accept that, but once we do, it brings peace and calm. That is what I wish for you. Blessings, Debbie Lorena,

Thank you so much for your comment! I am so glad that my post and my perspective was helpful to you. It is very difficult to let go and accept that we cannot change other people, especially when a loved one is engaging in highly self-destructive behavior. I still struggle with wanting to “save” the person I wrote about, but then I remind myself to let go and let God. We can only control ourselves and our own feelings. It can be difficult to accept that, but once we do, it brings peace and calm. That is what I wish for you.

Blessings, Debbie

]]> Comment on Serenity, Courage, Wisdom… by Lorena http://healingprojectsite.com/2010/08/serenity-prayer/#comment-2181 Lorena Sun, 05 Feb 2012 23:44:11 +0000 http://healingproject.wordpress.com/?p=507#comment-2181 This article has made a tremendous difference in my life. I also have a very close person is involved in self distructive behavior and is umbeleviable how it hurts us , people who are close to them. It is time to let go , find serenity and accept that I can not chance this situation but the way I feel regarding it.. Thank you very much. God bless you. This article has made a tremendous difference in my life. I also have a very close person is involved in self distructive behavior and is umbeleviable how it hurts us , people who are close to them. It is time to let go , find serenity and accept that I can not chance this situation but the way I feel regarding it.. Thank you very much. God bless you.

]]> Comment on Reading List by debbier http://healingprojectsite.com/reading-list/#comment-1971 debbier Mon, 09 Jan 2012 18:35:35 +0000 http://healingproject.wordpress.com/#comment-1971 Jim, I appreciate your taking the time to read my blog. Thank you for your book recommendation as well. I hadn’t heard of that title, but I will check it out. Best wishes to you, too! Debbie Reply Jim,
I appreciate your taking the time to read my blog. Thank you for your book recommendation as well. I hadn’t heard of that title, but I will check it out.

Best wishes to you, too!
Debbie

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]]> Comment on Reading List by Jim http://healingprojectsite.com/reading-list/#comment-1953 Jim Sat, 07 Jan 2012 07:27:46 +0000 http://healingproject.wordpress.com/#comment-1953 Hi Debbie, I have just stumbled across your blog, seems like I have been on a similar path to you, am looking forward to reading more of your blog and delving into your reading list. I too have read Louise Hay's book when I was first starting out the the road to healing myself and have found myself coming back again to affirmations, I am also combining them with energy work as I heal my body and mind, this is a fantastic book to help heal the body with affirmations and energy work, thought I would share http://www.amazon.co.uk/Energy-Work-Healing-Spiritual-Development/dp/1571745408/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1325920956&sr=1-4 best wishes Jim Hi Debbie,
I have just stumbled across your blog, seems like I have been on a similar path to you, am looking forward to reading more of your blog and delving into your reading list. I too have read Louise Hay’s book when I was first starting out the the road to healing myself and have found myself coming back again to affirmations, I am also combining them with energy work as I heal my body and mind, this is a fantastic book to help heal the body with affirmations and energy work, thought I would share http://www.amazon.co.uk/Energy-Work-Healing-Spiritual-Development/dp/1571745408/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1325920956&sr=1-4 best wishes

Jim

]]> Comment on Lessons from Oprah’s Final Show by Sophia http://healingprojectsite.com/2011/06/lessons-from-oprahs-final-show/#comment-1761 Sophia Mon, 12 Dec 2011 12:42:56 +0000 http://healingprojectsite.com/?p=946#comment-1761 The lesson I've learned from Oprah is that you can spend a lifetime & become VERY wealthy by healing & helping others and still remain unhealed yourself. Her weight issues are the same, no children, no balande between work & leisure, does not seem to have chosen a man of her own stature et c... The Wounded Healer is a transitory archetype, which shows that the magnitude of how hard you try to heal others, is how much you need to heal yourself. But unless you withdraw that projection, you can never become whole. The end result is not the Wounded healer (Christ on The Cross f ex) but the one who takes care, is resurrected and whole. She can have healed millions, yet subconsciously given a signal of codependence. Sophia The lesson I’ve learned from Oprah is that you can spend a lifetime & become VERY wealthy by healing & helping others and still remain unhealed yourself. Her weight issues are the same, no children, no balande between work & leisure, does not seem to have chosen a man of her own stature et c…

The Wounded Healer is a transitory archetype, which shows that the magnitude of how hard you try to heal others, is how much you need to heal yourself. But unless you withdraw that projection, you can never become whole. The end result is not the Wounded healer (Christ on The Cross f ex) but the one who takes care, is resurrected and whole.

She can have healed millions, yet subconsciously given a signal of codependence.

Sophia

]]> Comment on It’s Always Something! by julie http://healingprojectsite.com/2010/05/always-something/#comment-1505 julie Sun, 16 Oct 2011 18:42:33 +0000 http://healingproject.wordpress.com/?p=150#comment-1505 just want you to know I have enjoyed stumbling upon your writings this morning...Is there an email or facebook name for you? I am julie in Vancouver, B.C. right now with a very sore stiff neck...and more....so I had googled Lousise Hay to find out the meaning....Hummm and I find you! hope to hear from you, Julie just want you to know I have enjoyed stumbling upon your writings this morning…Is there an email or facebook name for you? I am julie in Vancouver, B.C. right now with a very sore stiff neck…and more….so I had googled Lousise Hay to find out the meaning….Hummm and I find you! hope to hear from you, Julie

]]> Comment on Lessons from Oprah’s Final Show by Dr.Manuel Tejeda http://healingprojectsite.com/2011/06/lessons-from-oprahs-final-show/#comment-758 Dr.Manuel Tejeda Fri, 08 Jul 2011 23:07:10 +0000 http://healingprojectsite.com/?p=946#comment-758 Dear Debbie, a member of our Selling The World Network found your blog and commented this post on our site. It resulted in a very powerful and inspirational post itself... and it ends with these words: "Thanks Oprah. Thanks Debbie". I already expressed my gratitude to Ben (the author of the post), but I wanted to say thanks directly to you. It was a great job resuming these five lessons for the world... and keep writing: it's really beatiful what you have to say. Best luck! Dr.Manuel Tejeda, Ph.D. CEO SellingTheWorld.org. Dear Debbie, a member of our Selling The World Network found your blog and commented this post on our site. It resulted in a very powerful and inspirational post itself… and it ends with these words: “Thanks Oprah. Thanks Debbie”. I already expressed my gratitude to Ben (the author of the post), but I wanted to say thanks directly to you. It was a great job resuming these five lessons for the world… and keep writing: it’s really beatiful what you have to say. Best luck! Dr.Manuel Tejeda, Ph.D. CEO SellingTheWorld.org.

]]> Comment on Staying Present by Holidays and Appreciation « The Healing Project http://healingprojectsite.com/2010/09/staying-present/#comment-101 Holidays and Appreciation « The Healing Project Thu, 16 Dec 2010 19:53:15 +0000 http://healingproject.wordpress.com/?p=523#comment-101 [...] Staying Present: A few years ago, I became highly “accident prone.”  A primary reason for this was that my mind was always on what I had to do next, not on what I was doing in the moment. I decided to allow myself more time to get things done and to be more mindful about my actions. This one simple decision has made a significant impact on my life.  This post looks at the dangers in not living in the moment, Louise Hay’s insights on accidents, and how staying present can help us to live richer and more fulfilling lives. [...] [...] Staying Present: A few years ago, I became highly “accident prone.”  A primary reason for this was that my mind was always on what I had to do next, not on what I was doing in the moment. I decided to allow myself more time to get things done and to be more mindful about my actions. This one simple decision has made a significant impact on my life.  This post looks at the dangers in not living in the moment, Louise Hay’s insights on accidents, and how staying present can help us to live richer and more fulfilling lives. [...]

]]> Comment on Missing Tile Syndrome by Holidays and Appreciation « The Healing Project http://healingprojectsite.com/2010/05/missing-tile/#comment-39 Holidays and Appreciation « The Healing Project Thu, 16 Dec 2010 19:53:09 +0000 http://healingproject.wordpress.com/?p=144#comment-39 [...] Missing Tile Syndrome: As human beings, we have a tendency to focus on what is missing instead of on what is present.  This post focuses on a concept introduced by author Dennis Prager in his book, “Happiness is a Serious Problem.”  I present an overview of the concept of the “missing tile syndrome,” as well as the three main ways for dealing with it. [...] [...] Missing Tile Syndrome: As human beings, we have a tendency to focus on what is missing instead of on what is present.  This post focuses on a concept introduced by author Dennis Prager in his book, “Happiness is a Serious Problem.”  I present an overview of the concept of the “missing tile syndrome,” as well as the three main ways for dealing with it. [...]

]]> Comment on The Frustration Rabbit Hole by debbier http://healingprojectsite.com/2010/09/frustration-rabbit-hole/#comment-103 debbier Mon, 13 Dec 2010 20:32:39 +0000 http://healingproject.wordpress.com/?p=540#comment-103 Charlie, Glad you came across my post and found it helpful! I will be making another post either tomorrow or Wednesday that you may also find useful. I invite you to visit my blog again and I always welcome comments. I will check out your blog as well. Best wishes, Debbie Charlie,

Glad you came across my post and found it helpful! I will be making another post either tomorrow or Wednesday that you may also find useful. I invite you to visit my blog again and I always welcome comments. I will check out your blog as well.

Best wishes, Debbie

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